I was recently with someone who said they wanted to fix me. They would say that if they could get rid of all my problems they would. I suppose it's a sweet thing to say; to be able to rid someone of any issues they may have... but I was left hurt and offended.
I have a lot of... let's call them quirks. Between my trust issues and my inability to communicate my feelings, I can see why someone might see me as broken.
But I love me. All of me. I like my scars (physical and emotional) and I wouldn't change them for the world. Yes, it might make relationships or friendships a bit harder for me, but I wouldn't be me without these quirks.
I guess all I'm trying to say is that if you truly love someone, you wouldn't want to fix them. You would love all of them, and all of their quirks.
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